I just don’t think I agree with this. Just like in a career, until you reach that job or postion you’re striving for, you may be content in your current position, and you work hard daily to get yourself to that next promotion to get to where you want to be, but your current position is not the exact love life you “want”…it’s just convenient for the moment.
I feel the same way when it comes to a women in her love life. For me, eventually I want to be married again. Yes, I’ve been married before. But right now, I am single, and I am enjoying it…
hmmm, so maybe this is the exact love life I want (for now). Interesting, I might be changing my answer LOL.
I guess it all depends on how you view being single right? Some women HATE being single, they want a boyfriend so bad they will date anyone, or they will stay in an unhappy relationship so they are not alone or because they don’t want to be single. Therefore in that case, if they are always searching for a guy in hopes they will be their boyfriend, then sure, they might not have the love life they want, and they will never be happy.
Until you can STOP and smell the roses. In other words, revel in your current situation and realize it’s exactly where you are supposed to be, then you will never have the exact love life you want in a healthy way.
I love my current situation. So my love life is my singlessness and I want this for me for now. Being able to eat whatever I want to eat. Drink some wine in bed, watch my stupid reality shows on my DVR, order pizza, and throw in breadsticks on a random night. Maybe I don’t want to shower and stay in my pjs all weekend. YUP, this is the love life I want.
It’s your life, and you can choose to enjoy the moment you’re in, or strive for something you might not get right away and leave you feeling dissapointed.
You decide dolls xo